Meditation is always a reliable source of calm and collected thinking in the midst of struggle and stress, but now more than ever it can be an incredibly effective way to keep a sense of inner peace when facing the chaos of the world. Unfortunately, meditation also has a somewhat misleading reputation, and many people shy away from attempting it simply because of the cultural and social expectations we've gathered when it comes to meditative practices.
So no, you do not have to grow out your hair, don a monastic robe, and find a high mountain peak... you can start small and in the way you find most comfortable. I am by no means an expert on meditation but I've been trying to do it more and more often recently and these are some of the tips I've found most helpful:
- Find a comfortable and calming place. It doesn't have to be picturesque and serene, as long as it's somewhere you can separate yourself from the stresses of home, work, and social lives, and it shouldn't be the same place you do your work or class assignments. Being outdoors is always helpful, but if you prefer indoors, make sure you have somewhere soft and comfortable to sit.
- Sit comfortably. Cross-legged, back straight, hands on your knees is the most common pose people think of when they think of meditation, and it is one of the easiest, most comfortable, and best for relaxation. However, any pose that keeps your back straight, core engaged but relaxed, and allows for lowering muscle tension is ideal, and even lying down can be effective sometimes.
- Avoid forcing yourself into an 'ideal' mental state or thinking about particular things. As was mentioned once before, meditation isn't the absence of thought, but rather a mindful approach to gathering all your thoughts and all your senses and letting them flow freely and become organized. Sit back and let your subconscious take the wheel, and if the first thoughts that come to your mind are anxious, overwhelming, or fearful, take it in stride and allow yourself to confront them.
- Be mindful - take in your surroundings, welcome sensory input, take the time to appreciate each little thing in your environment and ground yourself in reality. It can be hard to separate yourself from the chaotic thought processes we often encounter, but using mindfulness strategies (like listing things you see, hear, smell, taste, and feel, or progressive muscle relaxation) can help bring you back down to earth and harmonize your thoughts and feelings with your environment.
There's obviously a lot more you can do to enhance your experience, but these are some core basics I found to be incredibly beneficial, and it's a very good starting point. Even just 5 minutes a day can leave you feeling relaxed, focused, and strong. I hope this can help some of you starting out - please feel free to comment and share any other tips you all might have!
Thank you for your advice, I have yet to have the time to look at the sources over meditation but I will be sure to try a few of these tricks.
ReplyDeleteI struggled for a while thinking I had to have the perfect location and mental fortitude to not be distracted at all. I am working on allowing myself to receive the benefits of meditation without the things I mentioned. Your post has given me a friendly reminder that mindfulness becomes easier with practice; it is not about being perfect, it is about getting in touch with your mind and body.
ReplyDeleteHi Andy!
ReplyDeleteThank you so much for writing this post! Up until this point, I have been too intimidated to try meditating on my own (without listening to a guided meditation). Your advice made it seem attainable, and helped me to make my first "solo" meditation great!
Thanks again,
Emily :)
Emily
I'm so glad I could help! Congrats on your first solo meditation - that's an amazing milestone, glad you enjoyed it!
DeleteGreetings Andy,
ReplyDeleteYour post is very compassionate. I am grateful for your insights and your time.
Also, thank you for helping me during the first Zoom meeting for this course.
Sincerely,
April Vihilidal
Anytime! Always happy to help.
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