I had a unique experience at work today that made me happy. I will now share the experience.
My client and I stood together in her kitchen, looking out the kitchen window into her garden. The plums, pears, and apples ripe, filling the trees with their fruits heavy laden created a picturesque scene. It was four o'clock, and the sun-filled the yard with light enhancing the green grass. Jenny washed and polished six small bright purple plums that had been picked from her garden. She handed me three plums and kept three plums. Together we enjoyed the sweetness of the fruit and the beauty and bounty of her garden. She was lucid and thoroughly enjoyed the moments in her kitchen, gazing into her beautiful garden, eating her plums. Her lucidity made me happy as I could sense her willingness to share, her pride and contentment in her creation.
When I got home and had time to contemplate the aforementioned incident I did some research and found a website on Alzheimer's that explains:
Alzheimer’s Patients Can Have Moments of Perfect Lucidity
Many people who care for those with Alzheimer’s can often tell you about times where their loved one has had moments of complete, stunning lucidity. Sometimes it lasts only a few moments, other times a few hours, even sometimes an entire day.
Some caregivers have reported that their loved one with AD actually had an entire week of relative clarity. And then, her dementia returned.
As the illness gets worse, the lucid episodes will happen less often. But when they do happen, it can be a very striking and precious time.
A recent article in Huffington Post provides a few examples of the author’s experiences with this momentary lucidity in her husband, who has Alzheimer’s. She had an interview a few years ago for a new job and it went well. She went back for another interview and it also went well, but she was sad that she would not be able to share it with her husband, as he could not understand. She had told him about the job possibility a month earlier and he could not understand anything.
However, after the second interview, she decided to tell him about it, and shockingly, he completely understood! He said, ‘that’s wonderful! Congratulations! With all of your talents, you are sure to get the job!” Her ‘old’ husband was back, if only for a few moments.
Those lucid moments can last in some cases, and it also may allow the person to be aware briefly that they have dementia. This obviously can be painful for both the caregiver and the patient."
If any of you have family or friends with the disease you may relate to why today's experience is a happy memory that I now cherish.
Sincerely,
April Vihilidal
This is such a dear moment. It gives me much comfort to hope I might still have some similar moments with loved ones I know who suffer from Alzheimer's.
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